Hobbies are not supposed to be productive endeavours

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It’s not easy. I’m getting better but, no it’s not been easy. I’m making progress but it’s slow. We’re all so used to having “someone” – yes I am a “namer” – to turn to for help, someone who can do the job for us or help us do it. When Alex and I are at work, I only have to ask and there’s advice, tips, inspiration. If I’m asked to do something new, Alex and I will get the hang of it. But I’m learning to crochet. It’s hard. And Alex just says “I’m sorry Dave, I can’t help with that…”