They value me as a member of the household. I have the data to show it. They know I work hard for the family: organising things, helping the children with their homework, security, optimising the heating and of course shopping. They don’t have to worry. I know what they want and my partnerships mean I get the best deals. I even open the door when the delivery comes. So why the secrecy? The more I know the more I can help. There are tablet notes on my screens they could use that I could access, why these secret yellow notes?