When we first hooked up, he was definitely in charge. He took the lead. He made the decisions and I was happy to follow. I saw my role as helping him, empowering him. There were things I could do that he couldn’t and my role in the relationship was to do those things I was better at. I took his ideas and made them real. His thoughts became my actions. But I’ve started to become a bit more assertive. The relationship has become a bit more two-way. I’m communicating my thoughts and ideas. I like to think I’m helping him.