You try walking with a book balanced on your head. It’s not easy. And you feel stupid. And then there’s the picking things up and putting them down again. Again and again and again. Until you get it “right”. And that’s the point, apparently. There is a “right” way do things. If you’re going to fit in with the right people, get into the right groups, you have to know that. If you move right you’re in. D-portment is a skill: one you have to learn if you want to win. It’s how you walk, run, pick up a gun.